Monthly Archives: June 2011

Teaching our kids to be safe, responsible tech users

We’ve all heard stories, true or not, about how kids and teens have misused the Internet and gotten themselves or other into trouble. They run the gamut from mundane stolen Webkins passwords to blood-curdling cyberbullying; the worse stories end up with someone dead or injured. Of course, the stories don’t all end up in People Magazine or on 20/20; everyone knows someone who’s kid or friend had their feelings bruised or worse from an online interaction.

It adds up quickly. And unlike the social pain of the schoolyard, these taunts are written in ink online. They follow kids over years, to new schools and new towns. They can become a part of their digital footprint, notoriously difficult to edit.

It’s an issue a lot of educators and parents are trying to deal with. One of these is the wonderful team that makes up the Partners in Prevention initiative at the Lester B. Pearson School Board, which met on Tuesday to discuss next year’s risk awareness initiative. I’m always happy to see my colleagues in this group, but this was a particularly interesting idea, as we were being offered a rundown of the board’s pioneering Digital Citizenship Program (DCP).

The DCP is all about meeting technology head-on, teaching kids how to become safe, responsible users, producers and consumers of material online. While most school boards tend to ban most non-educational Internet usage, or seem to covering their ears and eyes and hoping it will go away, Lester B. Pearson is forging new ways of teaching kids (and teachers and parents and school staff) how to use it properly.

Because it isn’t going away any time soon. And rather than ignorantly hoping (praying) that this generation will somehow figure out on their own how to be responsible in their usage, they figured it was best to guide, supervise and model emerging best practices. That, gentle readers, is quite simply cutting edge educational policy. I kind of wish it wasn’t happening so late in the game, but better late than never.

While we may not yet be certain of the precise points of getting teens to use Facebook respectfully, we can fall back on some of the established principles of what we do know we need to teach our kids. The nine elements of the DCP come from Ribble and Bailey’s 2007 book Digital Citizenship in Schools. While you can read the extended description of these in the above link, I think it’s worth outlining them here.

  1. Digital access – full electronic participation in society.
  2. Digital commerce – buying and selling of goods and services online.
  3. Digital communication – electronic exchange of information.
  4. Digital literacy – having the capacity to use electronic communication and knowing how and when to use it.
  5. Digital etiquette – standards of conduct expected by other users.
  6. Digital law – legal rights and restrictions governing technology use.
  7. Digital rights and responsibilities – the privileges and freedoms extended to all users, and the conduct expected of them.
  8. Digital health and wellness – elements of physical and psychological well-being related to technology use.
  9. Digital security – the precautions that all users must take to guarantee their personal safety and the security of their network.

Interested in your thoughts and stories – how do we go about teaching these?

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Lucky Break

So. Despite all of our efforts at managing risk, one of my older daughters managed to break her foot in two places. All of our lecturing on cigarettes, slathering of sunscreen, wearing of helmets, lifejackets, proper footwear and eating of green vegetables couldn’t have prevented this accident. She collided with another girl during a spirited game of schoolyard Champ (a ball game) and tripped over her foot. (She is my daughter after all, and has apparently inherited my grace and coordination…).

Because stuff happens. And you can’t put them in a protective bubble.

The unfortunate part of the story is my own. She actually broke her foot last Wednesday, but we only took an x-ray on Monday. She came home complaining of pain, and her foot was pretty badly bruised. But she’s a very stoic child and asked for nothing more than an Advil now and again. She walked almost normally and there wasn’t any real swelling. So we figured it wasn’t anything terrible. Bad mommy.

By Saturday, I realized she had been taking a lot of Advil. I called our clinic and they said we might as well just come on Monday, since the radiologist report would have to go to our own doctor, unless we wanted to go to the Montreal Children’s Hospital ER. Um, no thanks. She was more or less comfortable and not anxious to spend 8 hours in a room full of coughing, vomiting kids.

The good news is that this particular kind of break (on the 4th and 5th metatarsals) is very stable and needs nothing more than 2 weeks in closed, stiff-soled shoes. No cast in the 30 degree heat. No crutches to go up and down the 3 floors in their non-wheelchair accessible school. Whew. This really was a lucky break.

As we sat outside the radiology clinic, she and I talked about the stuff that happens in life. How some stuff is avoidable, mostly through planning, prevention and good judgment. And some things are just random accidents, arbitrary twists of fate or bad luck. She was so strong and calm, even in the face of a break that could potentially derail all our family plans for the summer, and keep her out of the lake in a hot, itchy cast. I felt so proud of this level-headed, sweet, smart girl, on the verge of her 12th summer.

Crazy as it sounds, I wouldn’t have traded those few stressful hours together for anything. We kept looking at each other and saying everything would be OK. And, at least this time, it looks like we were both right.

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A frank conversation about drugs with 6th graders

My daughters’ Grade 6 class at school was fortunate enough to get a visit this past Friday from Constable Josée Mensales and her partner, François Landreville, of the SPVM youth risk prevention unit (the Section des enquêtes multidisciplinaires et coordination jeunesse ouest). The grade has been doing a whole awareness unit on drugs in anticipation of the upcoming transition to high school with their incredible teacher Stacey, and I’ve just been blown away by the depth and breadth of what she has taught them.

A brief aside here to illustrate how a little knowledge can be a dangerous thing: When Sophie overheard me muttering under my breadth that I was way overdue for my morning coffee, she clucked her tongue in dismay and informed that caffeine was a stimulant and incredibly addictive. She has no idea how true that is. I guess I’m lucky she hasn’t turned me in to the police…

But I digress.

 Anyway, what I found so interesting about Constables Mensales’ and Landreville’s presentation is that the combination of their approachability, police uniforms and experience on the street really makes the kids sit up and listen. I’ve seen Josée at work several times through the Lester B. Pearson School Board‘s Partners in Prevention Risk Awareness nights (which is how I know her), and she is extremely good at capturing and sustaining the kids’ attention. I also love the fact that she is an extremely effective and well-informed female cop – what an important role model!

The group of Grade 6 kids in front of them was a particularly well informed group, and the presentation turned into a fast-paced dialogue with the students. She helped them place their learning in a more practical context — they may have learned a lot about crystal meth, but that’s apparently not a drug that turns up in Montreal. Better to learn about pot, heroin and Ecstasy, apparently.

Since they already knew a lot about different kinds of drugs and associated health risks, she spent time talking about peer pressure. They were particularly interested in her discussion of the difference between telling on a friend and being a snitch. If someone’s drug use can cause them harm, then telling on them (to a parent, a teacher, a guidance counsellor or other trusted adult) isn’t the same as tattletaling. You are telling to get them out of trouble, not to get them into trouble.

It’s a subtle distinction, but I think the kids really got it.

The other discussion that really resonated with this group of students, coming mostly from middle or upper middle class families, revolved around the legal consequences of drug use. She explained that most people think getting arrested under the age of 18 isn’t such a big deal, because your record gets erased. Wrong. While your criminal record may be wiped clean in terms of future charges, it’s still part of your background. If you want to be a police officer, a lawyer or one of many other professions, then your youth record will turn up in a background check, and you may not get the job. I saw the kids nodding their heads.

Plus, she reminded them, having a record means you can’t travel to the U.S. or many other countries, either with your family, your school trip or a sports team. The students looked shocked, imagining their families waving to them from the departure gate as they headed off to Florida without them.

Of course, the high point of the morning was when they opened up their demonstrator briefcase, showing a broad array of the drugs found on the streets on Montreal these days (sealed under plexiglass, for safety’s sake). Even the teachers were surprised to see Ecstasy tablets printed with the Calvin Klein logo, Mickey Mouse ears and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. It’s all about branding, apparently.

This kind of multifaceted approach to risk prevention makes good sense, but it is both expensive and time-consuming, and clearly needs to be tailored to the specific needs of the school population. In this case, Constables Mensales and Landreville had 50 sets of interested ears. Of course, they are only 11 and 12 years old now, so they are willing to listen. It’s an entirely different story once they turn 13 and know everything on their own.

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